Love: Nine Year Old Boy Version

 

See that cute, chubby, little bundle of all-boy joy sitting on my lap?  He grew up.

He grew taller.  Thinned out.  Got teeth.  Lost teeth.  Grew bigger teeth.  Needs braces.  Got glasses.  Picks out his own clothes.  Earns straight A's.  Wishes he was taller, but guards his guy on the b-ball court with a determination that makes up for what he lacks in size (no one Justone guards scores a point).  Wants an Austin Collie jersey before the Superbowl, badly.  Knows more about electricity than I do.  Recently fixed the automatic door on the minivan when the problem stumped me and dad was away.  Doesn't sit on my lap anymore.  Wouldn't accompany me to the school's mother-son *dance because my dancing "would embarrass him" and "it would be more fun to go bowling with you, Mom."  

How and when did all that happen?  I've been awake, haven't I?

Well, happen it did.  But, I was glad to discover recently that some things haven't changed.  

This week, for Family Home Evening, I borrowed an idea from Shawni at Life.  (Shawni has lots of great ideas.  Thanks, Shawni,  for sharing them!)  After reading some passages from the Bible about love, and discussing how important it was to love others and let them know how much and why we love them, we made our own "heart attack".  We wrote down on paper hearts--construction paper, made by my daughters earlier that day--reasons why we loved one another.  A heart for each reason, that we posted all over the kitchen to enjoy until Valentine's Day.  

Superkid drew pictures.  I wrote paragraphs.  The Bionic Man wrote short statements that meant a lot.  Endeavor was careful to make sure that her reasons were warm and thoughtful.  And Justone was very honest.

My favorite of Justone's hearts:

It reads, 

MOM:

she makes food

Now, scroll up and take another look at that chubby, darling, full-of-breastmilk baby.  And then a look at the growing nine-year-old boy, who still appreciates a good meal.  Probably will when he's home from college, visiting.  And I'm sure his future wife will never be able to make a death-by-chocolate-cake that is as good as mine.

It's quite possible that Justone could have come up with other reasons he loves me.

MOM:

she has a college degree

and could probably get a job somewhere

but she wants to be at home when my sisters and I

come home from school.

MOM:

she has a great sense of humor

and likes to make us laugh.

MOM:

she plans the best family vacations

MOM:

she's very pro-active about my health

and well-being.  If it weren't for her,

I'd still have a chronic sinus infection.

MOM:

among her other talents,

she can come up with great ways

to help us memorize our

spelling words.

But you know what?  I'm really content with being loved because I make food.  

After all, don't they say that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach?

*Note:  AFTER the dance that we did not attend was over, I was relieved to discover that it wasn't all my dancing that was embarrassing.  Only one specific dance.  When Endeavor was trying to memorize all the states and capital cities earlier this year, she was having some trouble with Charleston, West Virginia.  I did the Charleston for her, which made the capital city of West Virginia unforgettable for all my children.  Justone explained that he was afraid I would do the Charleston at the mother-son dance.   Because I'm like that, apparently.  A dancing fool.

Love: CSI Version

The Scene of the Crime:  A front yard, Midwestern USA.  Suburbuan cul-de-sac.  Nice home, quiet street.  Not the kind of place you would expect something like this to happen.

The Date and Time:  Valentine's Day, 2007, early in the afternoon.  All the crazy stuff seems to happen on holidays, right?  But no one around here has ever seen this kind of thing.  Not here.  Folks in these parts thought this stuff only happened on TV--not right in their front yards.  

The Crime:  Graffiti.  Obviously, a crime of passion.  

Let's take the evidence to forensics and really get a good look at this.  Right on the front lawn, too.  It's a darn shame, that we let lunatics like this run around, that we let them get away with this kind of stuff. 

What we're looking at here is a closer shot, taken from the upstairs window.  The screen's in the way.  Can we get our resident computer geek to move that screen out of the way so we can get a look at what's really going on down there?

There we go, that's better.  I think I can make out some writing, there. 

Yep, there it is.  They've written, "RUTH (heart)'s BEN".  I think that means "Ruth loves Ben."  Are you seeing it?  Uh-huh, right there.  But what could it mean?  Hey, call down to the lab and see if they've been able to get some DNA from that sample we sent 'em.  

What do you mean?  There's no DNA?  There's gotta be some DNA!  It's written in blood!  Oh, that's not blood we're looking at?  It's a mixture of food coloring and water, huh?  That explains a lot.  I'm beginning to see where we're going with this one, now.  Someone with a little too much time on her hands filled up a squirt bottle with water and red food coloring, and took aim at the snow covered front lawn.  Real class, there.  

Like I said, it's a crime of passion, heheh.  Kids messin' around, probably, pulling some kind of a prank.  Those hooligans and their shenanigans.  You know, these teenage girls showing off for some guy they like.  Case closed.  Happy Valentine's Day, and all that.  

  

Note from Ruth:  This was actual footage from Valentine's Day 2007 at our house.  And I confess: I'm the hooligan who made that shenanigan!  I also confess that I heart Valentine's Day.  I enjoy coming up with new things every year to show my family how I love them.  I especially take evil delight in finding slightly embarrassing ways to show the Bionic Man how much I love him.  Oh yes, I have stories to tell!

Join me from February 1-14 for some Valentine fun

as I blog about fun ways to celebrate the Day of Love

with your family, friends, and Special Someone.

I can't wait!  In the meantime, here's some evidence of how things worked out on Valentine's Day 2007.  I give you a picture taken on February 15, 2007:

That's Superkid, who fell asleep on the couch holding a rose she'd stolen from the lovely bouquet her dad gave me the night before.  (She justified the crime later by reminding me that her middle name is Rose, making her the obvious owner of any rose that enters our home.)  How could I do anything but take a picture of this?  

But let's not get sidetracked by the cute sleeping child.  The point is, the Bionic Man was reminded of Valentine's Day by the graffiti on our lawn before he pulled into the driveway, giving him a second chance to do things right.  Yep, that's how we roll!

Come on In!

Welcome!  If this is the first time you've stopped by my little piece of Holland, then I'm pleased to meet you.....and I should warn you that I don't actually live in Holland.  I live in the Midwestern USA.  So why do I keep making references to Holland in this blog?  Go ahead and click on the link underneath my header if you want to be in the know.

Now, let's get on to the good stuff.  I've gone through phases of my life where I just haven't had the brain space or time to energy to really enjoy homemaking.  Now is not one of those times.  It is such a remarkable experience, that I'm documenting it.  So, take a look at what I did yesterday.

This is the room you enter from my front door.

It is fun to have a fireplace in my front room, but it's a lot of pressure!  That mantle has to look gooood, since it can be seen from the front door.  So do the shelves.  I tend to think of the shelf tops as an extension of our mantle.

I love words, can you tell?  I use way more of them than I should in my writing, and my decorating.  Here we have three complete sentences on one fireplace!  I guess I'm a chatterbox, and so is my house.  These three phrases are particularly meaningful to me.

This one is our family motto:  "Choose the Right and Hold on Tight."  It's meaning?  We want everyone in our family to consistently choose right over wrong, and we want them to hold tight to the gospel of Jesus Christ and to each other.  When the children leave the house, I just say, "CTR!" and they know what it means.  

I custom designed the lettering (it's vinyl, not paint) through Uppercase Living.  The sign board is actually a maple cabinet door, which I discovered in the basement of this house after we moved in.  What a find!  Two maple cabinet doors....completely unattached to anything....just waiting for me to turn them into signs!  (I wonder, what were the previous owners planning to use them for?) This one sits on a plate holder and stays in front of our fireplace most of the year.

 

The quote above our fireplace is one that keeps my husband and I focused.  It was first said by Harold B. Lee, "The most important work we will ever do is within the walls of our home."

I can't remember where I found this saying, but the box reads, "Unshared joy is an unlit candle."  I love that one.  It is a great Christmas quote, but I like to keep it for my winter decor, too.  The box I made myself.  I'd seen some like it in magazines and online, and I decided that it wouldn't be too hard to make.  I had my husband show me how to use his chop-saw, then I just a 1x6 board for the base, cut 1x4 boards for the sides, nailed them all together, painted it with leftover paint from our Red Room, and roughed it up a bit.  The lettering, again, is vinyl.  I fill it with different things and move it around the house....it looks great as a centerpiece or on my kitchen island.  

Gee, I think I need to make some more boxes!

Here are some close ups of what I use for winter decorating in my box.

Most of these items were things I found around the house.  Except the pine cones.  You can't find pinecones like these in my neighborhood, so I splurged for a bag of cinnamon scented ones.   

This is the shelf to the left of the mantle.

Here, I incorporated the woodland theme from the joy box on the mantle, as well as some of the textures.  I also threw in some Valentine touches, like the rose petals on the snow.  The "cloche" you see is actually a cheese plate I found at my Goodwill.  

This is the shelf to the right of the mantle.

I devoted this shelf to Valentine's day, but added a touch of the woodland theme with a tiny red cardinal.

I love my apothecary jars!  I bragged/blogged about how I got my entire collection for less than $20 here, and provided a tutorial so you can do the same thing!

Well, it's time to go get my kindergartener.  Thanks again for stopping by!

I've linked this post to The Mantle Party at The Stories of A to Z and VOTW at Design-a-holic .

Apothecary Jar & Cloche Tutorials

I'm going to show you how I acquired this collection of apothecary jars (AJs) for less than $20!

How to Make your Own Apothecary Jars

a tutorial

Disclaimer:  Someone, somewhere, has probably figured out how to do this already.  In fact, Martha Stewart is usually way ahead of me.  Mine may be the 80 millionth online tutorial for how to do this.  I, personally, have not come across any, so as far as I'm concerned, this idea is my own Mad Genius Moment.  

1.  As in most things, the first step of this tutorial is the hardest.....but trust me, you can handle it.  First, you need to shop your house or your local thrift shops.  You are looking for various sizes of lidded glass jars and crystal or glass candlesticks.  (If you aren't familiar with the look of an AJ, I suggest you do a quick online search.  Pottery Barn sells them, and you can find lots of other pictures online of how people are using them in their homes.  Or you can go back to here in this blog, and see some pictures and get links to other bloggers than have found fun ways to use AJs in their homes.  Or scroll down farther in this post.)  I was surprised at how many glass jars I was able to find at my local Goodwill, along with tons of candlestick holders.  You can either grab them randomly (as I did) and figure out how they work together once you get home, or you can really take a good look at the size and shape of each object and find perfect pairs while you are there at the shop.  It's totally up to you.  Here are the fruits of my randomness:

At Goodwill, I found my candlestick holders for $0.99/each, and my glass jars ranged in price from $0.99-$2.99.

I mentioned that you could shop your house, too.  You might be surprised at how many glass candy dishes you have tucked away in the recesses of your cupboards.  I was also able to find an inexpensive lidded dish on sale at Target, and a sweet candlestick holder that perfectly matched one of the jars at my local lumber store (it was only $1).

2.  Once you've acquired the separate pieces, you are ready to put them together.  Play with them to see which ones match up the best, using the candlestick holders as bases for the glass containers.  See how great these two are when paired up?

3.  Next, you need to clean up your finds.  The stickers from my local thrift shop were not easily removed, and some of my items had slashes of permanent black marker across them.  In this project, these will be key:

If you haven't met already, let me introduce you to Goo Gone.  It is good stuff.  Goo Gone and a little old-fashioned elbow grease removed the stickers, sticky residue from stickers and tape, and permanent marker that were junking up my pretty glass objects.  (Just use a rag with a spot of Goo Gone on it, and rub it over the gunk you want to remove.)  Goo Gone does leave an oily residue, so make sure that you have glass cleaner on hand to clean up the glass with, afterwards.  Also note that this oily residue can make glass very slippery.  Be careful!

Make sure you remove all stickers from your future AJs.  Particularly from the bottoms of those glass jars.  Nothing will ruin the look of your new AJ more than that sticker you forgot to remove that is now permanently stuck in between the two pieces of glass.

4.  Once the glass was all sparkly, I pulled out some more good stuff.  E-6000.  This stuff will be your new best friend by the time you finish this project.  I picked up this tube at my local lumber store for about $2.50.

Before I started this project, I did a quick online search to find out what the best thing was for gluing two pieces of glass together.  I decided this was the stuff.  E-6000 is typically used in jewelry making.  It takes 10-15 minutes to bond--giving you some time to work with placement--and dries clear.  DON'T use superglue, because it tends to dry brittle, which isn't good for a project like this.

My husband, the Bionic Man, who is incredibly knowledgeable about these things, suggested I use silicon caulk, which he had out in the garage.  I thought it might be a little difficult to control the caulk gun for the small areas I would be gluing, so I opted to spring for the E-6000.  If you have some silicone caulk you want to use up, go for it.

5.  As part of my research, I found out the E-6000 would adhere best if the surfaces I glued together weren't both as smooth as glass.  So I grabbed a piece of sandpaper

and lightly sanded the top of each candlestick holder

until that surface was scratched up a bit.  Do this over a garbage can because, after all, this is glass, and you don't want glass dust getting all over.  (Don't worry, there shouldn't actually be much dust from this.)

6.  Then, you take your tube of E-6000 and apply it to the surface of the candlestick holder on which the glass jar will rest.

7.  The final step is placing the glass jar on top of the candlestick holder.  As I mentioned, the E-6000 doesn't bond instantly, and dries clear, so you have some room and time for error.  I made some adjustments to the placement of of each of my jars before I let them rest and continue bonding.  E-6000 should be fully cured in 24 hours, don't lift your new AJs without holding onto both the jar and the base before then.  I went ahead and filled mine before 24 hours were up, assuming that the weight of the contents would help with the bonding process.  Sorry, I don't have any pictures of this step because my hands were busy with glass and glue.

Now, you can fill your AJs with something pretty!

I had a few things on hand at home (like marshmallows and seashells) that I started with.   A trip to my local wholesale floral/craft store found me some other inexpensive fillers:

fake rose petals (pictured above)

tumbled rocks

faux jewels

bird nests

marbles

Like the marshmallows I used, you can find lots of things at your grocery store that will work in your AJs, too.

fresh cranberries (I used these at Christmas, they lasted well over a month)

unwrapped candy

wrapped candy

citrus fruits

mini squash (great for fall)

Don't forget to shop your house!  The tiny figurine that sits on the pink rocks in one of my jars was just sitting, forgotten, on one of my shelves.  The ribbon and snowflake tied around my tallest jar are just leftover from Christmas (the snowflake is a tree ornament).

I should mention that I was able to find a $9 large AJ for 40% off at the wholesale floral/craft shop.  One of my glass jars came from there, too.  (Also 40% off.)  I totally lucked out on that large AJ.  It would have been hard to recreate that shape, and that particular shape worked really well with the rest of my collection.

Need more inspiration?  If you haven't seen my last post, go look at what The Nester does with AJs over at The Nesting Place.  (Look here and for lots of pretty peeks inside her AJs.)  Sarah on Clover Lane showed how her friend uses AJs here.  Come to think of it, I think it was this pic from Amorology that really got me obsessed about Ajs.

And I absolutely can't leave Pottery Barn out of the list.

See how much fun this can be?

I really have to give some blog love to Kami over at no biggie, whose Thrifty Thursday posts sent me running to Goodwill and made me think of repurposing thrifty finds.  Look what she did for Valentine's Day with her AJ:

See how smart Kami is?  This is how she avoided using many more conversation hearts than necessary.

Whew!  Have you seen enough apothecary jars for one day?  I hope you'll have fun making some of your own!  Let me show you quickly how I made a cloche in almost the same way.

How I Made a *Cloche

*I should mention that I saw something similar to this a few months ago on someone's blog.  Can't remember where.  So I can't take full credit for this one.  It was someone else's Mad Genius Moment.

1.  Found these random glass objects, each less than $1, and realized they would look great together.  I think the domed glass is from one of those hanging glass votive holders.  Very random.

2.  Woops, one of those random things was not less than $1.  It was actually $2.50.  That's the tiny dark speck you see.  It is a tiny drawer pull from my local lumber store.  How cute is that?  You'll need one of these--or something similar--to make a cloche.  I was originally looking for a glass knob, but my lumber store didn't have any that I loved.

3.  Run get that E-6000 out of the drawer again, and glue that little knob onto the top of the rounded glass thingy.  Set it on the base and--voila!--you've got a cloche.

Sadly, I have no pictures of this darling cloche with anything inside it, because I got so excited about sticking in the little red bird I found, I forgot that it takes 10-15 minutes for the E-6000 to bond, and....I had some glass to pick up.  That's right, I broke the darling cloche!  Considering my usual track record, one casualty amidst all this glass is not to bad.  But it had to be the cloche, didn't it?

I'm linking this post to DIY Day at Kimba's , Transformation Thursday at The Shabby Chic Cottage, Make It Yours Day at My Backyard Eden,  Frugalicious Friday by Finding Fabulous for Less , Metamorphosis Monday at Between Naps on the Porch, Thrifty Decor Chick's Before and After Party, and Show and Tell at Blue Cricket Design.  

Mad Genius Moment: Apothecary Jars

Apothecary Jars.

Have you heard?  They are all the rage.  I'm not sure who thought of using them lately, first.

(Is that a correct usage of lately and first?  The English major in me says no.)

That is to say, Apothecary Jars were obviously used in apothecaries first.

Someone reintroduced them to the vintage-crazed decorating world.  (Lately, first.)

I'm not sure who that first someone was, but Pottery Barn stole their idea,

splashed them here and there upon their hallowed pages,

and the rage began.

I didn't know about the rage, until I stumbled upon a blog called Nesting Place.  It is a beautiful blog, with such good ideas and tips for making a beautiful nest for your family.
The Nester showed off these one day, and I was hooked.

I loved them.  I had to have them.  Lots of them.  As many as the Nester.
But I didn't want to spend much money on them.
So I didn't order any from Pottery Barn.


This is what I do when I have one of those I-love-it-I-have-to-have-it moments.
I think, "How much do I have to spend on this type of thing?"
Then I go to Target.  If I can't find it at Target at that price, I just put that idea in a special file
inside my head.
Then if I ever see it for the price I'm willing to pay, I go for it.
Because good things come to those who wait.
(Sometimes good things come to those who jump up and do something about it themselves, too....but that part comes later.)

In early December, I was shopping at my favorite grocery store, Aldi.
You never know what you will find at Aldi.
I found my first apothecary jar.
For just the right price.
*$5.95
(*that's not an exact number.  I just remember that it wasn't more than $6.)


For Christmas, I filled it with shiny, red glass balls.  It looked lovely.
So lovely that I left it that way until yesterday.
Yesterday I filled it with something more suitable for the current season.
(Thanks for the inspiration, Sarah on Clover Lane!)

While I was getting the marshmallows at--where else?--Target, I went looking and found
one little, tiny apothecary jar.
Cute, and just the right price.  (Less than $5.)

It made me want more.  Lots, lots more.  I now possessed big and little, I needed sizes in between!

Ahem.  I interrupt this discourse to announce that, hereafter, I will refer to 
Apothecary Jars as AJs.
That's all, thank you.


So, while Endeavor was at ballet class yesterday, I visited the local thrift shop.
Goodwill.
Just saying the name makes me feel good.  Willingly good. And frugal.

Goodwill had no AJs.  None.
But they did have some cute glass jars with lids that I wished were AJs.
They also had glass candlestick holders.
A Mad Genius Moment!  Right there!  In Goodwill!
I realized that if I could glue the glass candlestick holders to the lidded glass jars,
I could make my own APOTHECARY JARS!!!


I don't experience many Moments of Mad Genius, so when I do, it's like Tom Hanks building his first fire on the Castaway Island.  I got crazy excited, right there in the housewares section of Goodwill.

So, I brought these lovelies home.  (Along with some others, not pictured.)

As of tonight, I have an Apothecary Jar collection.
I'm a collector, now!  Of something other than medical bills and dust bunnies!

Click here to go to my AJ tutorial.

Superkid's Version: Away in a Manger

We still have some of our Nativity sets on display.  I collect Nativity sets.  I like to display them for as long as possible.  The Bionic Man likes to display our Christmas Tree for as long as possible.  It, too, is still on display.  What can I say.....we are very festive.

But back to the Nativity sets.  This is one of my favorites, a tiny Nativity that was given to us by my brother-in-law and his brother, after they visited us while we were living in Germany.  They bought it in Oberammergau, the home of the famous Passion Play.

But wait, what's this?  There is something a little strange about this Nativity.

Who has joined Mary and Joseph at the Manger?  Let's zoom in and take a closer look.

Hmmm.....that looks an awful lot like a Polly Pocket I know.  That's strange, I'm pretty sure Polly Pocket is not from Bethlehem.  Or Oberammergau.

This looks like the work of Superkid.

"Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven."

- Matthew 18:4